in-laws

Now that I am pregnant, I try not to be too emotional. Problems are sinking into my mind, can't even share this bad thoughts to other people. It's hard to say bad things, and I will pass my burden to the person whom I will talk with.

 Now I decided to share this with you. The reason why I am emotional at this moment.

It is because of mother-in-law.

I know most of us are having problem with our in-laws.

.They are the person who talked dirty against you. They are telling your bad side to their sisters, brothers, and even friends. They didn''t even bother to talk t you and say it in front.

And you, hearing those words, playing innocent and oh-so-good-girl image. She will tell everybody your playing like an angel, for you are sparing those words that could hurt her.,

What if I talk bad to her?  Definitely she will swore you to death, shout, scream, saying all the words that could hurt you.

Then.. what should I do now? Do I have to play safe or play dirty?

I am doing my best just to please them. I thought I would please them. Finished my college degree, got a job. But did I earn the respect I deserve? or should I say should I give the respect they truly deserve?

Never let them treat you like you are their chimimay. If your soon-to-be- in-laws let you clean their house or wash their clothes, run NOW!

One thing I have learned in this stage of married life, NEVER PLEASE YOUR IN-LAWS. Even if you reached the pedestal, they will not admit that you are great.

And last thing to do is to convince your hubby to FIND A HOME AWAY FROM YOUR IN-LAWS. If staying with your in-laws, then plan to leave.